Christmas has always held a very special place in our family. While we usually live together with my partner’s parents, during the holidays we travel to my childhood home — a small summer house — to spend our family Christmas quietly, just the four of us (soon to be five).
This change of space already sets the tone: slower, calmer, and more intentional.
Christmas Traditions That Ground Our Family
Our Christmas table looks the same every year: roasted meat, sausages, potatoes, and traditional sauerkraut. Food is followed by music — we sing together, play the guitar, talk, laugh, and share stories.
Gift-giving is never rushed. Each present is “earned” with a song or a poem, which turns the moment into something playful and meaningful rather than overwhelming.
Experiencing Christmas Through Young Children
Our children are four and almost two years old, and for them, Christmas feels especially magical — particularly for our four-year-old, who understands anticipation and rituals much more deeply this year.
Because the weather is often wet and muddy rather than snowy, we spend most of our time indoors. Our daughter loves drawing and coloring, while our son is happiest simply being close to the family and observing everything around him.
In years when snow has covered the ground, we’ve gone sledding — but this year, we’re adjusting our expectations.
Finding Joy in Simple Winter Activities
We still make sure to go for walks. Our son rides in the stroller, and our daughter zooms alongside us on her balance bike. We also visit my mother’s grave to light a candle — a quiet moment of remembrance that feels especially important during Christmas.
Inside, we burn candles daily, decorate windows with winter stickers, and enjoy the warm glow of the fireplace. These small details create a sense of calm and safety that children deeply respond to.
Balancing Treats, Energy, and Rest
One of the trickiest parts of Christmas with small children is sweets. The “elves” have already been visiting for a while, and while we don’t forbid treats entirely, we try to keep things balanced — for their stomachs, their teeth, and their overall well-being.
With outdoor play limited by slippery, muddy conditions, we also have to get creative indoors, finding ways for the children to release energy safely.
A Season of Rest After a Busy December
December has been full: kindergarten Christmas parties, school concerts, training sessions, and events. Christmas finally allows us to slow down.
There are no major obligations — just caring for the children, cooking, tidying up, and being together. Soon after, on December 29th, we’ll celebrate our son’s second birthday, which makes this time even more meaningful.
And yes — while I might miss having a glass of wine this year (I’m expecting our third child), my partner will likely enjoy a Christmas beer. Life changes, traditions adapt, and that’s okay.
Why Family Rituals Matter
Research shows that consistent family routines and rituals support children’s emotional security, self-regulation, and overall development. Shared traditions — especially during holidays — help children feel safe and connected. You can read about it here.
Looking Ahead
After Christmas, we truly get to rest — and then step into the new year with fresh energy.
How does your family celebrate Christmas?
Do you prefer a quiet family circle or a larger gathering?
Wishing everyone a peaceful and joyful holiday season 🎄✨
You are not alone in this.
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